It happens a few times a year, so I suppose I'm due. I've been a little bored with my blog lately, which leads me to wonder, why am I here again? I'm thankful for my readers, and I dearly love my blog friends. But am I bringing anything to the table? Or does that even matter? Writing is a passion, so maybe that's enough.
So what to write about? Health stuff? Middle age is no joke, and it's kind of a shock to wake up at 50 and realize that you can't take good health for granted anymore. I've been on a bit of a journey lately, with pretty good results. Maybe I should share more of that.
What about my travels and adventures? When your kids are little you yearn for more time. Time for yourself, time for your spouse, time to figure out who you are and what you want to be. Then suddenly the kids are grown and you have all this time, and no idea what to fill it with. Another road I'm journeying down. Maybe I should write more about that.
I do know that I'd like to blog more from the heart. My friend Loretta writes "flash non fiction". She sits down and pours out 500 words on whatever subject grabs her attention that day. I love that idea for myself. Maybe.
In the end, I know that I'll keep on keeping on, even if hardly anyone is reading. It's been almost five years, and I can't imagine giving up this little space on the interwebs, or connecting with all of you.
What do you guys think? So many maybe's...
I always love hearing your thoughts Lana. It was fun when you guys were doing interesting things when the empty nest happened!!
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Jodie
www.jtouchofstyle.com
Thank you Jodie. We've got a list of new things to do this year too!
DeleteI enjoy your blog very much because you are a nice person. That matters a lot. Your blog is very down to earth and cheerful. I too am an empty nester, and it is hard to navigate this new phase of my life. You don't need to have a lot to say to be interesting or relevant. I appreciate your honesty, and your post on January 11 spoke to me. Thank you. I hope you feel better soon.
ReplyDeletePatty, thank you so much for your comment, and for reading my blog. It means a lot to me and I truly appreciate it, and I'm so glad that you enjoyed my earlier post. Have a great weekend!
DeleteTotally understand this feeling Lana! I definitely think blogging about midlife is a topic many would benefit from..and then I look at my demographics and my biggest group of readers are not quite my age so who knows.
ReplyDeleteIt's so hard to know what to do. The only way is to keep moving forward, I guess!
DeleteI feel the very same way most days Lana. It is funny isn't it? How times change. I have a lot of time on my hands when I was once so busy. That's why I started blogging but why do I continue? Some questions just don't have answers. I enjoy reading what you write, have a wonderful weekend!
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Kellyann
Thank you Kellyann. I really appreciate your support.
DeleteI think you have a lot to add to the blogosphere. We don't have a huge age difference but I suppose our differences are in raising kids - mine are still in the little phase. And I have anxiety like you. I always look to your blog for wisdom and inspiration and to know I'll be ok.
ReplyDeleteSadly, I had that feeling of not taking health for granted way too young because of how my father died. So yes - I would welcome you talking about that!
And all your writing about your husband and sons is all priceless.
Tamara, thank you so much. It makes me so happy to know you find a bit of value here. You and I are so similar, just separated by a few years. I hope we get to meet some day!
DeleteI feel the same way sometimes. You should write whatever strikes you! I love your blog so matter what you write, I'll always be reading!
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Hi Lana, I’m so sorry to hear about your migraine, they are the worst. I’ve missed so many fun experiences because of migraines, they are the worst. Please keep on keeping on, some nothing wrong with taking a break or reinventing your space on the internet. I’m going to re work my website this week, I’m getting bored too. haha
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Mary
I just love your voice....I love hearing about your parenting style. Ramble away!
ReplyDeleteI have only been blogging for a little bit over a year and what I do know is that blogging regardless whether it is your full time occupation or not, is a labor of love. Everything and I mean everything takes time and even resources. But I agree on keep on keeping on because the pros with blogging outweighs the cons. You have a great blog and you are doing a beautiful job. Happy Tuesday!
ReplyDeleteMaureen | www.littlemisscasual.com
I totally get this feeling and I have to believe that every blogger feels this from time to time. So many maybe's for sure!!!! XO
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